anyways, i was bathing today when i had a sudden revelation.
You cannot stop people from saying what they want or what they want to do. If they said something that bothered you or did something that bothered you and you cannot do anything about it, then GET ON WITH LIFE!
true isnt it?
For example, someone says that i am a flirt, i cannot stop him from saying it, since he has already done so. but there is something that i can do, i can find out why he considers me a flirt and if it is reasonable, i'll change for the better.
Another example, a friend goes around to talk bad about me to others. obviously i cannot do anything about it. Going to confront him would not be the best idea would it? After all, if he could talk bad about me, then i guess he must really dislike me. Even if i give him all that he wanted, he would not be satisfied, much less change his mindset. Therefore, i should watch what i do and carry on with my life, and try not too bother too much about it.
well, i think that if many people might view my present life as quite messed up, (you know who you people are) and thanks for help me through, but seriously, i dont consider my life as unfortunate or terribly messed up.
in fact, as time passed, i see everything as a wonderful life experience.
I gain a new lesson from these special experiences, enhancing my social-awareness skills, letting me know what not to do and making sure i do not do it again.
and knowing that somethings, no matter how terrible it is, something comes out good.
ah...................
i like that feeling. yes i do.