Ever wondered why there are so many disputes in this world? I have. and perhaps. i maybe have found the long awaited answer, this may not be a solution to worldwide violence, but it may tell us a reason why there is worldwide violence and perhaps. give us a thinking point, granted my viewpoint may not be the clearest, but who is to say that its blurry?

Many people put up fake fronts, agreed. I, myself included. i do try not to do so. however many failed attempts have led me to believe that fake fronts are part of lives, in order to get the best out of relationships. doesnt matter how saintly u are. if the person hates saintly people, there is no way your getting close to being friends.

if another sees outgoing-ness as attention-seeking, the "see-er" may avoid the "attention-seeker" for various reasons, eg. talking too much.

personally, i have encountered instances where people feel its alright to have different faces or fake fronts.

an excuse would be, " playing different roles"

- a role as a daughter at home. quarrel with family members and never giving in.
- a role as a daughter while friends are around, acting all loving to family and doing the dishes.
- a role as a friend. treating friends as company and pieces of junk that u can throw and retrieve and one's own timing.
- a role as a friend when things are bad. being around the victim or wanting friends around when things go oh so haywire.





different roles to play? or simply a hypocrite?

granted, im not so innocent or holy myself, but i try my best to change. however, as the saying goes, the the first impression is the most important.

once these fake fronts are taken off, and thus, revealing the true person, all HELL breaks loose.

some people are nice all the time. easy-going.

some people pretend to be nice, and are usually not willing to help.

some people are nice. but gossip.

some people pretend to be nice, just because they stand to gain something

some people are nice to certain people, choosing to isolate themselves from people they deem unfit to be friends with.

some people are nice, but with certain disparities. changing moods often and taking it out on others.

some people are nice, but their tongue cannot be tamed (i feel that im like that, perhaps not nice, but my tongue has a mind of its own)

while some are not nice, but when u need their help, u can count on them.

some are not nice, and they ever change their personality

some are not nice, however, the are quick to point out who does work

some are not nice, but always fair.

some are not nice, but not hypocrites.



this goes to show that many people are different, their personality affects their thinking.

some leaders may be nice, but assholes in the back.

while some leaders may seems like assholes, but they do what is needed to keep the country going.

while some are soft, willing to accept others for who they are and respecting them.

while other leaders take advantage of such soft leaders and seize power.






readers, u may agree with what i say, u may not. but generally, i think everone thinks what i say is true, the world has hypocrites who put up fake fronts. making them almost im possible to judge what they really are.

only GOD can.


take a real example.


teacher A sees boy X crying, and leaves him alone, and teacher A is a suppoused very "caring" , "loving" , "giving" teacher.

boy X is a foreigner, who has spent almost five years in singapore, and with his friends comforting him.

finally, the teacher is free.

boy X friends leave him to talk to Teacher A

his friends, or at least one of them believes that the teacher will do a good job comforting him. and leaves them alone. this is because the teacher has shown that he/she is caring, loving, giving.

somehow, boy X starts to cry a little bit stronger, although his friends have already calmed him down, with tears falling off his eyes like Victoria Falls.

Friend A goes over and put his hand over Boy X, feeling that Boy X might need some form of physical support. Boy X seems to calm down.

soon after Teacher A tells Friend A to take his hand off, saying that Friend A is not helping.

perhaps because teacher A is the form teacher of the class Boy X is in, and Knows that friend A is not in her class and is being extra by holding him.

however, he/she doesnt know that Friend A was probrably the first Friend Boy X had when he came to Singapore, and they have really close ties.

Friend A takes his hand off. and Teacher A continues talking, and it seems like She is making him face reality.

soon, boy X tells he/she that he has certain qualities/disadvantages and that teacher A will not understand.

can u guess what teacher A says?

" YES! I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND, SO I SHOULDNT BE HERE"

she walks to the door and says " U CAN CONTINUE CRYING YOUR HEART OUT FOR THE NEXT TWO WEEKS"

although he/she is trying to make Boy X face reality, BoyX is going through a tough period of time! cut him some slack!

maybe Boy X hasnt worked hard enough for the promotion, but still, given that point of time, he was distraught, to the point where he couldnt feel his legs!

he/she walks off.



" how can a teacher, who is suppoused to be caring, act like that? "


fake front? or jsut trying to make him face reality?

u guys werent there, and u wouldnt know the enormity of the situation, and im really fed up.

but still, if u can understand what im saying. then i think u guys know what i mean by fake fronts.



people can be nice at times, but true colours show once they are stressed out, or irritated.


before tell someone off, or even try to bring him to reality, see it from his point of view,

u'll never truly understand a person untill u stand in his skin and walk arnd in it.




and the only good thing was that stephanie met up with me today, she brought my day back to life. thanks STEPH